“The Jesus You Need”      Mark 2:1-12       October 15, 2006

 

SCRIPTURE INTRO:

This morning, our passage is another healing miracle.

   There are many of them in Mark’s Gospel.

You will notice that Jesus never did things the same way twice.

   There were always surprising differences in the way Jesus healed people.

 

Those different things that Jesus did or said are very important.

   They show us things about Jesus that we need to know.

For example, last Sunday, in the healing of the leper—

   there was that significant detail, Jesus touched him. 

Saw the tremendous significance of Jesus touching the unlovely,

   what a perfect fulfillment of the law that was, how it empowers us.

 

In this miracle, Jesus did things very differently.

   He didn’t touch the man and say, “Be clean.” 

   Instead, Jesus first said something that surprised and angered people.

This is a good example of what I said at the very beginning of our study:

   The Gospel of Mark is about Jesus Christ, Son of God, invading this world,

   challenging our perceptions about what God is really like.

We see in this story the Jesus we need, but not necessarily the Jesus we want.

 

INTRO:  Have you ever seen a kid with a heinous runny nose?

   Green, yellow—almost too gross to look at.

   All the world can see that this kid needs his nose wiped.

But what happens when his mother comes at him with the Kleenex.

   He twists his head and fights—it is like he is being tortured.

   All he wants is for his nose to be left alone.

 

If little children could articulate their concept of the ideal mom

   they would say I want a mother who makes me happy—

   who never makes me bathe,

   who lets me play till I drop from exhaustion,

   and who feeds me only French fries and candy and coke.

But that’s not the mom they need—

   they need someone who gives them baths, naps, and vegetables,

   and who is committed to her version of what will make them happy

   for the rest of their lives.

We’re often like little children when it comes to Jesus.

   We want a Savior who is going to give us what we want when we want it.

   And who is going to leave alone the things we want left alone.

We think we know what we need for our eternal happiness.

   And Jesus is the one who is able to get it for us—and he better.

 

But that’s not the Jesus we need and that’s not the Jesus we see in this story.

   In this miracle we see Jesus utterly committed to his version

   of the eternal happiness of this man who was brought before him

   for healing of his paralysis.

 

Jesus knew what this man really needed,

   he saw down into the depths of his soul,

   and understood his deepest needs. 

And even though Jesus did heal his body,

   that’s not where he started. 

And when he finally did raise him up to walk again,

   he did it at the perfect time to accomplish all his purposes.

 

The reason Mark wrote his Gospel, reason all four Gospels written

   and preserved by God through the ages in the Bible—

   is to show us Jesus as he really is.

This is the Savior you need—this is the Jesus you must turn to in faith.

   This is the Jesus who can challenge and change you.

 

This miracle shows us three things about Jesus.

1.  Jesus knows you better than you know yourself.

2.  Jesus gives you what you really need.

3.  Jesus loves you enough to make you wait.

 

And just like last week, I want to give credit where credit is due.

   Tim Keller’s sermon on this passage was tremendously helpful to me

   in my study and preparation.

 


MP#1  Jesus knows you better than you know yourself.

Jesus was back in Capernaum, he was probably in Peter’s house—

   and there was a huge crowd, the house was packed with people—

   there was not even any room outside the door.

When these four men arrived carrying their paralyzed friend

   they were so determined to get him to Jesus for healing,

   that they got up on the roof and tore a hole in it and lowered the man down.

 

Every single person there knew what these men wanted, what man himself wanted.

   They probably thought that Jesus would simply take the man by the hand

   and command him to rise and heal him on the spot.

But instead Jesus said:  “Son, your sins are forgiven.”

  

This is an extraordinary statement—

   Because what Jesus was saying to this man was essentially:

“You think you know the main problem of your life, but you don’t.

   “Your problem is not your paralysis—it’s your guilt.”

You think you know what main need of life is, but you don’t.

    Your main need is not to be able to walk, it’s to have my grace.

 

That’s offensive.

   If you went to a person and said, I have this problem, will you help me with it?

And person said, “That’s not your problem.”  You don’t know your problem.

   Your problem is your wrong response to the problem.

   That’s what Jesus was saying to this man.

 

Or to look at it another way: 

You know that this man had said to himself over and over—

   “If only I could walk.  If only I could walk.”

   Then my life would be complete.  Then I would be happy.

   I would never complain about anything else for as long as I live.

 

But Jesus was saying:  You’re wrong.

You think, if only I could walk, I’d never be unhappy again.

   But you would.  In a few months, in a few years you would find

   other reasons to be unhappy and incomplete. 

 

Tim Keller quotes a well-known New York writer who says that over the years

   she has known a few struggling actors and actresses who finally became famous.

Before they became famous—stressed, struggling, driven people.

   But when they got what they wanted, it destroyed them.

“I pity celebrities.  No, I do.  Celebrities were once perfectly pleasant human beings, but now their wrath is awful.  You see they wanted fame, they worked, they pushed.  The morning after each of them became famous, however, they wanted to take an overdose.  Because that giant thing they were striving for, that thing that was going to make everything ok, that was going to make their lives bearable, that was going to provide them with personal fulfillment, and happiness happened, and they were still them.  The disillusionment turned them howling and insufferable.  I think when God wants to play a really rotten practical joke on you, he grants you your deepest wish and then giggles merrily when you realize you want to kill yourself.”

 

We all think we know ourselves, our real problems and needs.

   We all have our lists of the things that are going to make life ok.

   Success in business, relationships—marriage, children. 

   Achieving a certain standard of living, admiration of our peers, whatever.

 

Jesus is audacious enough to look at a paralyzed man and say:

   You may be unhappy, angry and empty now because you can’t walk—

   but if I give you just that, you will become even more unhappy, angry and empty.

   I know you.  I know your real problem and your real need.

Jesus says the very same thing to you and to me.

   Our real problem is that we are building our identity

   and resting our hopes other little saviors besides Him. 

 

If Jesus was in this building, and you knew he could give you whatever you wanted,

   what would you tear the roof open to ask him for?

Oh Jesus, fix this thing and everything will be ok—

   I’ll never be unhappy again.

Just give me this one thing and I will always be content.

 

Jesus wants you trust that he knows you better than you know yourself.

   He knows your problem, he knows your need.

   He is the Savior you need, not anything else.

Trust him.  He will give you what you need.

   That’s the second point that stands out.

 


MP#2  Jesus gives you what you really need.

This man needed forgiveness.  That’s what Jesus gave him.

   That’s what we all need most of all. 

   More than any of the other things we need.

 

Forgiveness of sins is more than simply the removal of guilt.

   Jesus says:  “Son, your sins are forgiven.”

He is granting this man reconciliation with God.

   Sonship, adoption into the family of God.

   He is making him one of the number.

Forgiveness of sins is simply shorthand for salvation itself—

   in all of its dimensions. 

This is what the man really needed—this is what Jesus gave him. 

 

But why would Jesus forgive the sins of a man who didn’t ask for forgiveness?

   The Bible makes it clear over and over that a person must ask for forgiveness. 

   That’s called repentance or confession.  God requires it. 

   Shows that the heart is softened toward God, eager for change.

1 John 1  “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us . . .”

Psalm 32  “When I kept silent, my bones wasted away . . . then I acknowledged my sin

   to you and did not cover up my iniquity and you forgave the guilt of my sin.”

 

This man was lowered into the room and didn’t ask for forgiveness.

   Why did Jesus forgive him? 

It’s no mystery really.  Mark tells us what Jesus did see something.

   “He saw their faith.”  Not just the faith of the four lowering the man.

   But the man as well, this was an act of faith on his part.

   He had obviously asked his friends to bring him.

 

Jesus saw more in this man’s faith than a desire to be healed of his paralysis—

   He saw an inarticulate but heart-felt desire for mercy and grace.

It was overshadowed by his desire to be healed perhaps—but it was there.

   And Jesus responded to that inarticulate desire by pouring out his forgiveness.

The old hymn puts it well:

   All the fitness he requireth

   Is to feel your need of him.

 

That’s the kind of Savior Jesus is.  Love the way Tim Keller puts it: 

   “Jesus Christ is aggressive in his grace.

He knows what we need, wants to give it to us, comes to us aggressively.

There is a wonderful picture of this in “The Voyage of the Dawn Treader”

   One of the Narnia Chronicles by CS Lewis.

There is a boy called Eustace.  He’s a rotten, unpleasant boy.

   Finds this cave filled with dragon treasure.

   Decides to keep it all for himself.  Now he can get back at people he doesn’t like.

There is a big golden bracelet slips on his arm—

   falls asleep on the treasure—when he wakes up, has become a dragon.

 

Has this terrible pain in his arm, now a claw, bracelet cut into flesh.

   As he looks at himself, sees how ugly he is, has a terrible sense of loneliness.

Then Aslan the lion appears, who is the Christ-figure in the Narnia Chronicles.

   Aslan takes him to a clear pool and tells him to undress and jump in.

So Eustace begins to peel off his dragon skin,

   finally gets it off, but like a snake, he has another dragon skin under it.

   So he does it again, but he is still a dragon underneath.

 

So Aslan says:  I’m going to have to do that for you.

   “I was afraid of his claws, but I was pretty nearly desperate now, so I let him do it.  The very first tear he made was so deep that I thought it had gone right into my heart.  And when he began pulling the skin off, it hurt worse than anything I’ve ever felt.  Well, he peeled the beastly stuff right off—just as I thought I’d done it myself the other three times, only they hadn’t hurt—and there it was lying on the grass:  only ever so much thicker, and darker, and more knobbly looking than the others had been.  And there I was as smooth and soft as a peeled switch.  Then he caught hold of me and threw me in the water.  It smarted like anything, but only for a moment.  I found that all the pain had gone from my arm.  And then I saw why.  I’d turned into a boy again.”

  

That’s the work of Jesus. 

   He hears inarticulate, imperfect expressions of faith,

   often mixed up with all sorts of other desperate longings—

   and he responds by pouring out just what people need—

   the grace of forgiveness and all that entails.

Sonship, adoption into the family.  And with that painful but beautiful changes. 

 

Jesus wants you to trust him to give you what you need.

   You may be crying out to him right now, in some kind of pain.

   He hears you, hears your cry. 

Might be other things he wants to do first.  Might put that claw into your heart

   to peel away ugly things.  But it’s a gracious claw.  He loves you.

And that brings us to the third point that stands out in this miracle story.

MP#3  Jesus loves you enough to make you wait.

The man didn’t have to wait long to be healed, but it was a significant wait.

   Between his forgiveness and his healing of paralysis

   was a very significant conflict between Jesus and the religious leaders.

 

This is the first time in Mark where Jesus faces the teachers of the law.

What happened after Jesus forgave the man?

   The teachers of the law began to accuse him of blasphemy in their minds.

   Who can forgive sins but God alone?

 

Of course, they were right.

   Who can forgive sins but God alone?  No one.

They understood what Jesus was saying to this man—

   All your sins were against me. 

   I am not just a healer, I’m your Savior and Lord.

 

Now at this point, Jesus had a choice.

He could have just left them with their thoughts.

   And perhaps they would have dismissed him as a nut.

But instead he provoked them with a question:

   Which is easier:

   To say to the paralytic, ‘Your sins are forgiven.’ or to say:

   ‘Get up, take your mat and walk’?

 

Anybody can say, “Your sins are forgiven.” 

   But how do you know if they really are?  Where’s the proof?

But if you say, “Get up and walk” to a paralyzed person,

   everyone can see right away whether or not you have the power to heal.

Jesus was setting them up for the miracle he was about to perform.

   He was going to use the miracle to verify his authority to forgive.

   Which was exactly what he did.

 

He turned to the man who he had just given the thing he needed most—forgiveness,

   and he healed his body.  He gave him the thing that he wanted so much.

   “Get up, pick up your mat, and walk.”

This was his open declaration to the religious leaders of Israel, with proof—

   I am the Messiah of God.  I am the Savior.

And at that point, the shadow of the cross fell on Jesus.

What does this show us about all the things we bring to Jesus in prayer?

   All the other things besides our requests for forgiveness and grace—

   things like healing from disease, or help in business,

   or resolution of problems with people, or financial needs?

 

We see that he cares.  He loves us.  It was with compassion he healed this man.

   He was moved by his faith and the faith of his friends.

But we also see, in this short but significant wait—

   that Jesus has a big plan—his Father’s glory, his glory, our eternal good.

   He even worked this man’s healing into part of his plan—

   part of his path to the cross. 

 

That means that it will be according to his timing,

   his purposes that he will answer your prayers.

Pray for forgiveness, pray for grace—he delights in answering immediately—

   But pray  “Lord, let me walk again.  Lord, give me success in my business.

   Lord, help me find a job.  Lord, restore my marriage.

He hears.  He loves.  But he answers in his time and way.

 

How long?  He doesn’t say.  Sometimes you have to wait till you get to heaven.

   Might be heaven before you will walk again.

   Might be heaven before certain tears are wiped away, things made right—

   or it could be tomorrow.  That’s up to him.

 

So how do you deal with that uncertainty?

Go back to where we started.  Jesus knows you, knows what you need.

   And he has given you what you really need, his grace.

 

Paul had his thorn in the flesh.  What was that?  His eyes?

   Imagine the difficulty for a man who loved to read and write.

Three times he asked the Lord to remove it and what was the answer.

   My grace, my grace is sufficient for you. 

 

And when you see that and delight in it—

   and Jesus starts to become to you the deepest desire of your heart—

   then wonderful things will happen, waiting will not seem so bad—

Because you have Jesus, and he is all you need.

   Jesus wants you to trust him, trust his timing for all your requests.

   He loves you.  He is carrying out his big plans.

CONC:   The Jesus you need is not a Savior who does your bidding—

   Who you can turn to and say—

   Jesus, give me this and everything will be ok.

 

The Jesus you need is the one who says—

   No, that’s actually your problem—

   putting your hopes in other saviors besides me.

 

The Jesus you need is the one who knows you better than you know yourself,

   and who can teach you to know yourself.

 

The Jesus who comes at you aggressively with his grace and forgiveness—

   always ready to give you what you need.

 

And the Jesus who loves you enough to say, “Wait, I’m working out good things,

   beautiful things, eternal things, trust me.”

 

That is the Jesus who as in the house in Capernaum on that day long ago.

   And he is with us today by His Spirit—

   there is no need to tear a hole in the roof—

He invites you to meet Him at His Table.

   Let’s do that now.